Weight A Minute

4weddingWe’ve been married for one week and one day (and no, I don’t feel any different.  Being married to Bear is just as delicious as co-habitating with him).  We just got our pictures back from our future son-in-law and videographer, Sean Rasbury.  They’re beautiful.  We’re beautiful.   Our family is beautiful. Our friends are beautiful. The wedding was beautiful.

But, you know it’s important to keep your weight down when you have Chronic Kidney Disease and the pictures were a rude awakening for me.  I thought I was doing just that.  Hah! I was not the beautiful blushing bride, but the beautiful bountiful bride.

Keeping your weight down is one of the ways to help retard the progression of the disease.  How? By not allowing yourself to become obese. Obiously, if you keep gaining weight, you can become obese.  Obesity is one of the contributing factors for developing diabetes.  Diabetes may lead to, and complicates the treatment of, ckd.

Look at my wedding picture again. Based on my BMI (Body Mass Index) I am obese. This is from What Is It And How Did I Get It? Early Stage Chronic Kidney Disease:

“The BMI formula was something about your weight divided by the sum of your height in inches squared times 703.  I think. I have researched and researched this,

but still do not understand it.  I did discover later on that there are free BMI Calculators online, such as the one on the United States Department of Health and

Human Services’ website [http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bminojs.htm], so you really only need to know our height and weight. If I’d known that at the time,

I just might not have felt so overwhelmed.”

You can order the book in either print or digital at: http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keywords=What+Is+It+And+How+Did+I+Get+It%3F+Early+Stage+Chronic+Kidney+Disease (which is Amazon) or http://www.barnesandnoble.com/s/What-Is-It-And-How-Did-I-Get-It–Early-Stage-Chronic-Kidney-Disease?keyword=What+Is+It+And+How+Did+I+Get+It%3F+Early+Stage+Chronic+Kidney+Disease&store=allproducts (which is Barnes and Noble).  If you’d like an endorsed print copy, just email me at myckdexperience@gmail.com or call (623) 266-2609.

You can see from the family wedding picture that some of us are naturally thin. They don’t seem to watch their diets or exercise, either. I notice that they need to start doing just that once they approach 30.  I sort of remember that being the case for me, too.  Then again, I danced all the time, studied Judo, ice skated, skied, and basically was moving all the time.  My diet was another story.  I didn’t have ckd at the time and, like any other 20 something, thought that I was immortal.  family

Here’s a chart from Health Travel Guides that offers the other benefits of losing body fat.  You can see it’s an overall positive action to take for your body’s health.


Medical News Today published this information in an article:

“A University of Bristol team, with funding from the British Heart Foundation (BHF), has now identified that a target found to be critical in the brain’s regulation of body weight,

is also crucially involved in the development of obesity-associated conditions. Researchers describe the mechanism behind a key molecule, known as melanocortin-4-receptor (MC4R),

whose mutation or loss in both human and animal models has shown to cause severe obesity with type 2 diabetes.”

The title of the article is Scientists Identify Culprit In Obesity-Associated High Blood Pressure. Hmmm, high blood pressure (hypertension), another contributor to ckd. This is preliminary research so we can’t just pop a pill that will magically control our weight.  We need to do that ourselves. You can read the article for yourself at: http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/releases/255768.php.

If you read another article at: http://news.health.com/2013/02/06/vitamin-d-loss-attributed-to-obesity/, you’ll find that obesity also may lead to a drop in vitamin D, something we can’t afford as ckd patients.  This is the vitamin that regulates calcium and phosphorous blood levels as well as promoting bone formation, among other tasks.  It also affects the immune system. If you’re like me at stage 3A, you’re already taking vitamin D supplements since we need to control phosphorous levels, which means we cannot afford to lose any more of it.

Yet another caution about obesity from Medical News Today is not only for ckd patients but any woman of child bearing age.  The headline says it all: Obese Women Taking Certain Contraceptive May Be At Increased Risk For Type 2 Diabetes.  Keep in mind that diabetes, as mentioned before, may contribute to the development of ckd.  Want to read the entire article?  Here’s the link: http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/releases/256099.php

thAccording to DaVita at http://www.davita.com/kidney-diet-tips/?p=1872

  1.                                        “… people with a BMI 35 or greater had higher death rates than normal weight, overweight and mildly obese patients, so becoming more obese is a concern.
  •                                         Obese people are more likely to have chronic diseases like diabeteshigh blood pressure and heart disease, which could mean they receive more medical care
  •                                                                                                                                                                                                                                       and monitoring compared to normal weight people.
  •                                         Excess weight may be a source of energy during illness or injury—a benefit the lean person does not have.
  •                                        A person can have different degrees of  health and fitness regardless of their BMI or weight. Factors such as nutrition status, diseases, health history, where
  •                                                                                                                                                                         fat is stored (abdominal  vs. lower body), eating habits influence your level of fitness.

The message here is that while excess weight may not affect your general health and may even be of some benefit during times of ill health, we have a chronic disease and cannot afford the luxury of the benefits in being overweight.

We offered no goodies except the wedding cake at our shindig.  Our dinner was all pasta based with plenty of salad and an additional side of string beans.  We had enough champagne for a toast.  That’s it.  We were able to provide the usual wedding dinner with options for those with ckd (ME!). The only thing we each had to control is how much of each we ate.taste the cake

We spent time enjoying instead of gorging.  All our daughters took part in the ceremony:  Abby Wegerski sang Marry Me and Nima Rosensfit sang I Would Love To Be Your Last, Lara Garwood was in charge of the candles for the family blending part of the ceremony, and Kelly Garwood read ‘Corinthians.’  Bear and I wrote our own vows and tailored the officiant’s vows to our beliefs.

Our audience consisted of only Janet Le, my long time buddy from Staten Island; Karla Lodge, my Arizona buddy; and Alex Gilman, Lara’s beau, because I wanted to become Bear’s bride under the palo verde tree in our backyard with only our dearest and nearest in attendance – that, of course, includes Sean Rasbury, who is Kelly’s fiancé, and Michael Payne who was Bear’s best man.  Even Bella, our dog, showed up for the ceremony wearing her new red collar with the red hibiscus the Kurrs and Doris Widmayer had brought back from Hawaii for me.

More pictures next blog and further descriptions for what we did for fun, instead of gorging, at the reception.

Until next week,

Keep living your life.


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